you make me better

i'm a movement by myself, but i'm a force when we're together


and you betta believe that shit lol.. anyway... i'm feeling this song so much right now, just had to give you my thoughts.

first things first... why is it that more people don't subscribe to this mantra? (i admit i'm guilty of this in the past as well) why would any logical person get with someone that cant better them in some way? oh yea, most of us aren't logical lol... but really- i don't mean money (tho if that's your thing, do you) but overall... why be with someone that can't help you be that force?

you see it everyday...people in relationships (be it an actual relationship, a friendship, a kinship,etc) with people that are nothing but toxic to them. always bringing out the worst qualities, but they hang on like the world will stop spinning if they let go. what is it? comfort? familiarity? sex? no way out? not wanting to be rude? and the person in question is very obviously unhappy, unrepresented, stifled....

FOR WHAT?

there's nothing wrong with demanding that the people in your life compliment you and your mission in life, whatever that may be... you want to be president, make sure your first lady is media proof; you wanna be a doctor, you cant date a meth-head; you wanna be a weed connoisseur- your partner better too (hey, some have goals that differ from the norm lol); you want a faithful man- your partner cant have prostitutes on speed dial

STOP SETTLING FOLKS

so i'm going to start the movement with me... all you toxic mfs need to KIM.... i'm on to bigger and better, because i'm a movement by myself, and if i'm going to upgrade you- you better be able to do the same for me